There is a tendency in mainstream pornography to represent fellatio as an act of female submission, when I think it's rather the opposite: that is to say it's often when a woman has the most control. For example, I know I can ask for anything I want when I'm in the middle of giving head. For this to be the case, we must really take control of the situation, and only do it when a really feel like it, not when he expects it. Even if this means doing it less frequently.
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